Honest Safety Tips for Female Solo Travellers

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There are plenty of articles out there on staying safe but I felt this was the perfect platform to gather my honest safety tips for female solo travellers.

As a solo female traveller, I sometimes get people enquiring as to whether I think it’s safe to visit certain countries on one’s own. I’ve traveled to plenty of countries by myself and haven’t let the fact that I’m a solo female traveller put me off going anywhere. Nor should you if you want to visit a particular destination.

That being said, being a solo female traveller comes with a whole set of issues that solo male travellers don’t face. We live in a world where, unfortunately, some countries’ attitudes towards women aren’t the same as towards men. This means women can be treated unequally and occasionally with disrespect.

Whether you’re male or female, travelling alone means you have to be even more conscious of your safety and how you’ll deal with possible situations while on the road. So here are some safety tips for female solo travellers which you can use either at home or while galavanting around the world!

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Dress like the locals

This point is dependent on where you travel. In many places, the dress code will likely be the same as back home. However, in some countries – such as Muslim countries – there are dress codes which should be observed. Though you may argue you should be able to wear what you want, when you want, the reality is you’re in their country and need to respect their customs and cultures. Do a quick Google search for “(Country) dress code for tourists.” The plus side of dressing like the locals is that you fit in a little more, and will hopefully avoid any unwanted attention.

Not quite like the locals but modest at least!

Send a message home

I am usually the one to contact my family before they contact me. I’ve even gone as far as messaging them the co-ordinates of where I’m spending the night – just in case. Though you don’t need to be that thorough, it’s a good idea send the odd message back now and again, just to let your loved ones know that you’re safe and that nothing untoward has happened. This is especially a good idea if you’re staying in a sketchier area or taking an overnight bus. Tell them you’ll send a message when you arrive safely and what time that will be.

It’s okay to be bitchy

The most important of my safety tips for female solo travellers:
Being kind has lots of advantages, and it’s how I believe everyone should live their day-to-day. That doesn’t mean you have to be kind to everybody. If you meet someone and they seem to be over-friendly and ask where you’re staying, don’t feel obligated to tell them. The same goes for details – where you’re from, who you’re travelling with, or your travel plans. If someone is genuinely making you feel uncomfortable, don’t be afraid to calmly but firmly tell them to leave you alone. Though it may seem embarrassing, you can even make a scene or seek help if you need some assistance getting rid of this person. I used to feel bad I’d hurt the feelings of others, but have now learned my health and safety comes first. Learning to read people and situations is useful when travelling alone, regardless of whether you’re male or female. Recognizing a situation before it escalates can help you get out of it quickly. Listen to your gut. I mean it!

Be confident

Nothing attracts unsavory people and situations more than someone looking like they don’t know what they’re doing. If you look like you’re confused, vulnerable, or lost, some people could choose to take advantage of it. Even if you’re not feeling that confident, try to look as if you are: walk with your back straight and head up, as if you’re a person who knows where they’re going and what they want. You’ll probably find that, even if you don’t feel like that at first, you’ll soon gain that posture anyway – travel tends to do that to people.

Can’t get much more confident than that!

Catcallers and thieves

Catcalling is no fun, whether you’re at home or abroad. If it does happen to you while you’re travelling, the best way of dealing with it is just to ignore it. In most cases, they will get bored and leave you alone. If you do feel concerned, head for the nearest cafe or restaurant and seek refuge there. Catcalling is something which men do to try and get the attention of females, and tend to be quickly put off if there are others around.

If, however, you find yourself the victim of a theft or mugging, it’s much better to allow them to take what they want; no amount of money or gadgets are worth your life. In this situation, you should be more focused on keeping yourself safe, and if that means losing some things, then so be it. Plus, if you have travel insurance, your belongings can usually be replaced without too much of a headache.

Carry a dummy wallet

In the unlikely event you get mugged, it’s a good idea to carry around a dummy wallet. A dummy wallet contains old, expired credit or debit cards and a little bit of cash – a good tip is to put a large note on top to give the impression that there’s more money in there than there actually is – which you can then give to them if needed, meaning they think they’re getting something but you are actually still in possession of your money and current cards.

Try to make journeys during the day

It’s a fact that most incidents of crime and attacks happen after the sun has gone down. One way of getting around this is by making any journeys you need to make during the day. Of course, if you’re travelling to another city which is quite a distance, this may make for a long day on public transportation, but it’s the safest way of doing it. If the distance is too big for a day journey and you find yourself having to take an overnight bus or train, there are ways of minimizing risk. If it’s a bus journey, book with a reputable company and check their reviews on social media or Trust Pilot. If it’s a train, pay the little extra for a sleeping cabin which you can lock and bring an extendable lock to loop around your bags and the bed frame.

If you’re out and about in the city where you’re staying, try not to walk home alone after dark. Uber is available in many cities across the globe, or if it isn’t, there will be a local version available, so make sure you download the app for it before leaving your accommodation. If all else fails, ask someone who works in the restaurant or bar that you’re in to call you a taxi.

Join a tour

Just because you’re travelling alone, it doesn’t mean you have to be alone! For the coutries I so badly wanted to visit but didn’t want to be completely solo, I jumped on a G Adventures tour! This included India and Morocco. Other options are to take part in day tours, this is really good to do at the beginning of a trip while you’re still getting your bearings. It’s also an opportunity to ask your guide any questions you’ve had on your mind about the area.

G Adventures in Morocco

Be mindful of your drinking

Going out and having a good time is part of a lot of people’s trips, and technically you should be able to have a few drinks if you so wish. Unfortunately, if you’re travelling on your own, especially as a solo female traveller, drinking copious amounts of alcohol is not the greatest idea. Alcohol has the effect of slowing down reactions, losing inhibitions, and loss of memory. Of course, have a couple of drinks if you want, but don’t go out and get wankered. Also, ensure you keep an eye on your drink at all times, and if someone buys your drink for you, be there at the bar when it happens to ensure nothing is slipped into it.

Enjoy yourself

Though your safety is essential, if you focus too much on these “risks,” it can be easy to forget that you’ve traveled to that country for a reason. Yes, you should be mindful where you are going and who you’re speaking to, but most places are safe, and the majority of people are good and kind, so remember that while you’re away.

Travelling is a fun activity, and there’s absolutely no reason why you should let being a solo female stop you from exploring the world. The critical take away here is to stop and think about your actions for a moment to keep yourself safe, just as you would if you were at home.   

Have you got any safety tips for female solo travellers to add? Please comment below!


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